Did you by any chance install updates from the Security Updates CD?
If so, you will probably find that you already have installed KB823353
which apparently supersedes KB837009 in spite of the lower number.
(e.g., bulletin MS04-018 came out after MS04-013, etc.)
You may also discover that you have installed KB887797 which
updates KB823353 and thus gives you modules which supersede
I'm not familiar with your UI so I don't know how to specify with it
to ignore an update but I think that that is what you should do
unless you want to uninstall the other two just so you can install
the one you are having trouble with and then hope that WU reoffers
you the other two (or get them again manually), etc.