Go to your ISP web mail page and delete from there.
Post all replies to the group to keep the discussion intact. Due to
the (insert latest virus name here) virus, all mail sent to my personal
account will be deleted without reading.
After furious head scratching, riki asked:
| i have had a very large message sent and have only a dial up
| connection is there a way to cancel this message and maybe get it to
| not be downloaded, or go back to sender with not recieved message or